I met this girl (we’re both 20year old females) at the start of the school year in fall of 2019, immediately we got along really well and I was attracted to her. So I asked her on a date, to which she initially said she would try but that she wasn’t sure if she was into girls or not, but then ended up texting me to say she can’t see herself with a girl. But we stayed friends and it wasn’t weird at all, we had a couple classes together so we saw each other multiple times a week and hungout outside of university too. We have a lot in common, laugh a lot together, and I feel really drawn to her. For a couple months now I’ve been thinking about bringing up my feelings because before when I asked her out it was without really knowing her, so now after getting closer and feeling stronger idk if things changed with her but I know how I feel at least. I saw her the other day for the first time in a while (we don’t have any classes together this semester so it’s been less often we hangout especially because she lives on the opposite side of the city from me) and after seeing her my feelings were just confirmed and she just makes me feel happy to be around, and I can’t help but picture what it could be like if we were together. Then to top it off, I saw her on tinder the next day (and I’ve had tinder for a couple weeks and haven’t seen her on it before so I’m fairly certain she’s just gotten it or just changed her settings to add girls), and I swiped yes on her but we haven’t matched. I don’t want to read too much into the tinder thing and not matching because there are a lot of reasons why she might not have swiped on me (didn’t see my profile, didn’t want to make me uncomfortable since I’d asked her out before, or whatever else idk). So really I’m just debating whether it’s worth it to tell her how I feel again, especially after asking her out before and her not being into it then. I wanna be honest and I know that if I don’t do it I’ll never know and all that, but idk if she does like me in that way and I don’t wanna make her uncomfortable or not wanna be my friend. So I’m not really sure what I’m gonna do or if there’s a ‘right’ move to make. I’m interested in hearing anyone’s perspective/opinion!! Help a girl out 🙏 (This is the text I’m thinking of sending her: Hey X, hope you had a nice weekend! I’ve just been thinking for a while and wasn’t sure about saying anything because at the end of the day I just like hanging out with you, but after seeing you again and then on tinder the other day I just felt like I wanted to be honest with you. I know I asked you out before and you said you couldn’t see yourself with a girl, which is totally okay & im not assuming anything, just since then I was glad to still be friends. But getting to know you more and just hanging out, part of me still felt into you, and I still feel that even though I have dismissed it because of how you felt (which again is all good). And I guess on the chance things have changed, or even if they haven’t, I wanted to tell you that. You’re just a really cool person.)
Submitted March 02, 2020 at 10:19PM by gilliwang https://ift.tt/32JtDeZ
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