Soo this is not an question nor someting that i desperatly need to get off my chest (in fact i don't even know if the flair i put is the correct one) but i want the opinion of you, fellow pansexuals.
I don't have problems with my sexually at all, it's who i'm and i'm fine with this. It's not everybody who knows that i'm a pansexual though, just my close friends, but it's not because i'm afraid to tell my parents about it, i have some concerns about how my grandma (in these case my dad's mom because my other grandma passed away 6 years ago) would react if i told her but i'm pretty sure that my family would support me if i told them (which is something that makes me happy because i know that a lot of people struggles to come out to their family and friends, especially considering the my country that is kinda LGBTphobic so i feel lucky to have a supportive family and awesome friends :)).
I don't feel like it's necessary to talk to my family about it...i see some people talking about how hard is to coming out to family and friends but i don't feel that way, my only problems are that i'm the shy and i'm the youngest female member of the family (in my dad side i'm only older then my 9 year old male cousin, and in my mom side after me there are just my cousin sons) soo sometimes i feel like i'm not taken seriously because i feel like i'm treted like a child and my siblings and cousins aren't treted that way when they were my age (i'm 17 btw and in two months time i'll be considered an legal adult in my country) and i'll probably be seen as the "gay cousin" (i don't mind that but my father's brother will probably make some "uncle" jokes, that are like dad jokes but worst) but my sexually is part of who i'm and think is not a bad idea to talk to some of my cousins about it and then come out to the rest of the family someday
Sooo what do you guys think? I come out to my family in the next family reunion? Should i start by talking to my cousins?I should talk to my parents about it or i should just go "hey mom, dad, i'm dating someone! i'll introduce you to my GF and oh btw i'm pansexual owo" (if someday i date someone because i think i'm fated to be forever alone pwq)?
(Sorry if i had written something wrong, i suck at writing in English)
Submitted May 15, 2020 at 09:14PM by louis_uwu https://ift.tt/2WAbYVs
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