Often times I tell people that I'm pan, and others that "it's more complicated, but pan is close enough". Here's a full explanation of where I am on the sexuality spectrum.
Amorosity: I'm not exactly polyamorous, but I can live with having multiple partners. If I were to have a boyfriend/girlfriend, and they cheated on me, I wouldn't be mad (though I'd ask them why because I want them to be happy).
Sexuality: People I know and trust only (I don't want any STDs). Also, you have to make the first move. I don't actively seek sex, but I'm willing to do it with just about anyone who falls into my "trusted" category, so long as it makes them happy. Sex doesn't mean as much to me as it does to some people, and it doesn't affect my mood in any way, so I'd only really do it for the sake of the partner. All genders are fair game. Also, you don't have to be a romantic partner to get into it.
Romanticism: I can love anyone, but it takes a lot for me to properly fall for someone. So far, I've only ever fallen for one person. I don't exactly know what about a person I look for, still figuring that out. I am definitely genderblind about it, as well, I wouldn't register your gender in my mind until like months in.
Gender Identity: I'm pangender. I feel like I'm male, female, both, neither, everything in between, everything beyond, and none of them at the same time. I guess to properly encompass it, I'd want to look vague as to whether I'm male or female. I don't like my facial hair, I'm built a bit too masculinely for my taste, and I am trying to grow my hair out. I also have a baritone voice, but that's not changing, it sounds nice. I am biologically male.
If you guys can help me summarise it a bit better than this, please feel free.
Submitted August 07, 2020 at 08:28PM by Orbus_XV https://ift.tt/3a5pXb4
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