Panphobia, not all of this thread is triggering but there will be trigger warnings

Ok so let's start out with the non transphobic definition of pan

If you dont think it's a microlable this is the correct definition: -bi people can date specific genders (sometimes with a preference) -or all genders (always with a preference) -pan people can date everyone (always without a preference)

If you think it is a microlable here is the definition: -a person under the bisexual umbrella who likes all genders without a preference can also go by pansexual, but doesnt have to

Notice how neither of these are saying trans is a "3rd gender" or saying that if you like all genders without a preference then you have to go by pan?? Its because, weather you believe it's a microlable or not, it's not ok to push a label onto someone who doesn't feel comfortable in that label (obviously but battle axe bis ((bi people who are panphobic)) cant get that through their heads for some reason?

(TW) Now this is the triggering part so trigger warning (TW) I have been seeing alot of panphobic stuff on Instagram, tiktok, reddit, whatever and every time I see it I feel like I'm getting closer and closer to hurting myself again, weather that be s3lf h@rm or su1c1d3, now I'm in a safe place maybe not mentally but physically (I live with my family)and I'm hoping to get help soon, but it doesnt help that I'm still thinking these things and that I can still hurt myself, it's like I dont even control my own body when I think like this it's kinda weird:/ I've tried taking social media breaks and journaling and other stuff but it never works, please don't worry about me and if you do dont worry much, sorry for grammar and spelling mistakes I'm on my phone, have a nice day and sorry for the rant:)

Submitted August 07, 2020 at 07:06PM by bee_-sneeze https://ift.tt/2PzUoga