So I was thinking about how my attraction changes between genders. And of course anything involving gender is confusing to me and makes my brain hurt lol because it is a complicated thing and I honestly do not have the patience to think about it in depth. I don't even like thinking about my own gender. (Which I recognize is a hell of a privilege--I can't imagine how painful it is to have dysphoria and be forced to think about this complex metaphysical and abstract [yet incredibly relevant] part of yourself.)
Anyway, I realized I'm more so attracted to physical attributes of people in combination with their self expression and personality. And maybe I'm more attracted to certain gender expressions than others? But honestly I don't think my attraction is limited by gender itself. But (pt. 2) I also know that bi people can be attracted to all genders too. I'm just wondering if these realizations make me specifically pan. Anyone have words of wisdom (in simple enough terms for my dumb baby brain to get?)
Submitted August 07, 2020 at 12:41AM by fernautilus https://ift.tt/2XCbfDm
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